Friday, November 17, 2023
Sejarah Nakba 1948
Kun Fayakun
Assalamualaikum. Wow lamanya tak berblog. Sebenarnya, banyak benda jadi dalam masa setahun ni. I don't know where to start.
Ok let me start from where I stopped.
Wait.
Hold on.
Lama sangat dalam draf ni. Since 26th May 2022 9:07AM
Inspired to update the blog by Maria Elena - the legit influencer. Tak kenal? BBNU la tu. Ataupun you're not active enough on Internet.
Ok nanti sambung.
Okay today 17th Nov 2023, 18:44.
Credit: @khairushdiHere's a life update. I'm still gracefully working at Tafhim Sdn. Bhd., sekolah yang menguruskan SRI Ummah Bandar Baru Bangi. Working there as an IT Officer. Almost 3 years already.
Still single but having a crush on someone. I feel like a kid for having a crush at this age aahhahahaha. Yela, people of my age are either dah tunang or married and dah beranak pinak anak 1 at least. While me? Dah la single. Kerja pun dekat ngan rumah. Kat tempat kerja pun tak dan nak berkenalan dengan sesiapa sebab semua laki orang ahhahahahah and hmmmmm takmo la ustaz ustaz ni. Gaji pun alhamdulillah cukup dengan apa adanya.
Last updated, my sister kena eczema teruk kan. A few months back, she was diagnosed with cataract. Both eyes. Yes, the same sister. Watif dah underwent surgery for one eye and another one dalam beberapa bulan lagi. Aku bawa dia pergi first appointment dengan ENT. I worked from hospital ya. Siap selfie hantar kat HR lagi. Sepanjang dalam keadaan mata dia macam tu, I was her driver and her eyes. I sacrificed a lot of my time — which I should be spending with myself or socialize with other (than family). She underpaid me just like gaji kat Malaysia ni yang underpaid. Tapi tak kisah la benda tu. I really hope she appreciate everything.
Also, with that condition I officially became the driver for running errands. Untuk mengelakkan salah faham, I love driving tapi by myself la & dengan someone yang vibe dia sama dengan aku. Kalau time aku kena drive, tapi co-pilot banyak complain, auto tak suka drive.
Imagine if I were not working dekat dengan rumah? Siapa yang free nak bawa adik pi tuisyen? Nak balik rumah kejap alihkan kereta sebab orang nak tar jalan? Nak ambil ubat abah kat KK? Nak hantar barang customer mak?
Some (included family) ada yang tak faham the situation. Dok la cakap
"Apply la kerja ni. Gaji besar. Gaji sekarang kecil buat apa?" I ranted this to my parents and sibs. All they said was "awak jangan la buat muka. Kata ok je" pastu takleh nak defend diri sendiri?
Gaji kecil ni la yang buat semua di atas ya.
Sometimes aku harap ada orang masuk meminang aku cepat cepat je 😂 tapi bila fikir melayari rumah tangga is harder than what I'm facing right now, hadap je lahhhh
Pekakkan telinga dan terus berdoa. Supaya dipermudahkan segala urusan.
Kahwin mahal. Bila dah ada anak, lagi mahal. Lagi serabut. Buatnya laki kau menyusahkan dan tak membantu dalam hal rumah tangga walaupun ilmu dia tinggi, lagi parah.
Bila dah umur macam ni, macam-macam kisah kehidupan, kerjaya dan rumah tangga yang selalu aku dengar.
Your time will come, your time will shine. If Allah says, it's meant to be yes it's yours. Kalau tak, usaha la teruk mana kalau Dia kata, tu bukan untuk kau maka bukanlah.
Saturday, January 16, 2021
Tough Cookie
Tambah dengan stress online class, assignments and court trial. Selalu tidur 3 pagi 🤦
Her insecurities was at the highest point. She almost cried, like every night I got off work, "Keklah, watif penat la macam ni. Kenapa watif sorang je dapat ujian yang macam ni? Panas tak boleh. Sejuk tak boleh. Nak mandi pun sakit tau."
I comforted her by saying, "it's okay, ujian untuk orang beriman memang besar" and it was not helpful at all hahahha bad sister. I wasn't at her place and feeling the pain.
I voiced it out to my parents. Dia pernah bagitau mak abah but mak abah jenis kalau tak nampak depan mata memang akan senyap je. Then lepas dah bagitahu mak abah, abah cakap "Takpa pergi jumpa dr tu. Abah bayar."
Her only concern was, money. But I know our parents is more than enough to support her health wellbeing. Sebab banyak dah duit dia habis beli cream itu ini kat farmasi....tu yang dia taknak minta duit. Yela dia kan masih belajar dan tidak berpendapatan. Lagipun, for me as long as you have not earn your own money, the responsibilities of your health wellbeing are on your parents and they cannot complaint about it. Bukannya anak minta dilahirkan untuk sakit seperti itu.
So, made an appointment and went to a private hospital. Spent like RM400+ for treatment months ago. But the specialist didn't consult her properly (tak sampai 10mins pun bersua muka). She only prescribed her the medicines.
We saw no progress & it was getting worse!
"Teruk ni watif. Dia bagi ubat apa?"
Okay ubat dia bagi tu rupanya taraf chemotherapy, paling tinggi...Idk what's the name. Dia requested taknak steroid kat doktor tu, tapi doktor tu bagi gak steroid.
Ubat yang specialist tu bagi, semua macam tak sesuai la untuk dia basically, kata abang ad (our pharmacist cousin). Watif ada tanya abang ad satu soalan. Soalan seperti ini, "Kenapa ada doktor kalau doktor pun tak boleh menyembuhkan penyakit?"
Maka, conversation diakhiri dengan istighfar. Kak ngah pun buat la referal letter untuk refer dia ke pakar di hospital kerajaan.
"Tak pernah-pernah kak ngah buat referal letter sampai dua page ni watif"
Lepas siap surat tu, esoknya terus hantar ke hospital serdang and waiting for the call from the hospital.
Hospital suruh tunggu dua minggu untuk jawapan. Tapi lepas beberapa hari doctor call untuk set appointment.
Last week, she went to hospital serdang to meet the doctor. Doctor terkejut oi.
"Macam mana u boleh tahan????"
Then, consultation began. She asked my sister the historical and family background. Ada asma ke tak. Ada resdung ke tak, semua ada. Ada lagi tak yang ada ezcema etc etc
Sejarah dari adik aku baby pun dia tanya tau. She even had to take off her clothes for a whole body checkup.
Consultation took about an hour. Then had to go to O&G for pregnancy test skskksks lepastu baru dr bagi ubat. Macam-macam la ubat dapat.
But all for free. RM1 pun tak payah bayar. GL mak abah pun tak pakai.
Syukur jadi rakyat Malaysia. Nikmat mana lagi hendak kamu dustakan?
I told her numerously to love herself first. Tak perlu nak insecure sangat. Jangan stress. Tidur awal.
Today, she brag about her skin condition. Alhamdulillah, it's getting better and I'm sooo happy! The medicine worked. Allah made it worked. To give a helping hand in her journey, kakak jadi tukang sapu cream kat belakang badan dia. Aku jadi tukang syampu rambut dia. Boleh buka spa dah siap request urut kepala lagi. Tadi masa syampu & urut kepala dia, siap keluar angin lagi ko, kemain.
That's all for today.
Cherish everything you have; nikmat kesihatan, keluarga dan ibadah 🥰
Thanks for reading my story and good night! 💜
Friday, July 3, 2020
in-tacenda
Sunday, June 14, 2020
Dua puluh tiga, 2020
I've been down lately, looking at some of my friends are achieving their goals. Ada yang dah kerja secara professional as a banker, ada yang tengah sambung study, ada yang dah stable bekerja di syarikat yang aku boleh katakan selamat la dalam keadaan sekarang (at least tak kena unpaid leave ataupun diberhentikan).
Hal ni selalu membuatkan aku berpegang pada satu quote ni. Quote daripada drama Korea yang bertajuk What Happens To My Family?. Oh pernah post pasal drama ni dulu. Kat sini. 6 tahun lepas punya drama dan ada 53 episod. I still can't believe I watched it from the 1st episode until the end.
"At your age, nothing is supposed to work out. If everything worked out, that'd be weird. The sooner the sun up, the higher your shadow get. A god beginning doesn't ensure a good ending. If the progress is slow, there's a reason why. So, don't cry. Pain is part of being young, they say"Peer pressure is real even in adulthood. Kalau dulu masa kecil, selalu mak comparekan kita dengan anak kawan-kawan dia takpun anak sedara dia kan. Bila dah besar ni, ada juga. Tapi lebih pada aku comparekan diri aku dengan kawan-kawan aku yang lain. Aku rasa pressure. Aku rasa macam aku tak bersyukur dengan apa yang aku ada. Tapi bila muhasabah diri semula, aku patut bersyukur sangat sangat. This is just part of the pain.
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As of today is my 23rd birthday, I received so many prayers from my family, friends and acquaintances. Thank you for all the prayers. I really appreciated it. Only Allah can repay you back. These are some of the prayers and wishes that really make my heart feel awww
야 생일 축하해 💜 너의 생일은 우리 탄이 생일 하루 뒤에 좀 특별한거 알지? ㅋㅋ너의 인생에서 더 성공하고 행복했으면 좋겠다 야 왜냐면 좋은 것 들을 받을 자격이 있으니까. 앞으로ㅗ 더 멋지게 살아맄ㅋㅋ많이 보고싶고 사랑한다! 나 먼저 자..녕~(슨데..우리 멀리 있지도 않은데 왜 이렇게 너를 만나기가 좀 힘들지?I don't know 난 물라 🤔😂✊) - Maryam
Assalamualaikum Qilah. Happy 23rd birthday. Semoga Allah memberkati sahabat saya ni. Diberikan kesihatan yang baik. Dipanjangkn umur dan dimurahkan rezeki sentiasa 💕. Semoga terus kuat dalam menjalani kehidupan yang makin mencabar, diberikan kesabaran dan sentiasa kuat dalam menghadapi apa jua cabaran dan dugaan hidup. Semoga 'Aqilah Najwa menjadi hamba yang taat dan anak yang solehah untuk mak abah. ❤️. Ya Allah semoga sahabat saya berjaya dunia dan akhirat. Aamin 😊. Happy birthday sister. I love you 💐 - Farahin
Happy birthday aqilah najwa!
I pray for every steps of yours
Be blessed with His love and guidance
And of course, endless happiness and barakah fiddunya wal akhirah!
Happy 23rd birthday aqil! Luv u! Heheh ❤️🙆🏻♀️🎂 - Mardhiah
Happy Birthday ‘Aqilah Najwa!! Mencari gambar kita berdua seperti tiada, aku dh transfer masuk laptop la ni 🙃🙃 Thank you selalu teman pergi career fair smpai sis dapat protege maybank. Nnti kita gi makan yeee. May Allah bless you with endless happiness. Thank you for helping me when I needed words of wisdom! Semoga ‘Aqilah Najwa serta keluarga dan org sekelilingnya dijauhi sebarang penyakit berbahaya. Sentiasa dimurahkan rezeki olehNya. Mendapat keberkatan dan keredhaan dariNya. Semoga anda terbuka hati nak apply kerja lain hehe. Cepat cepat kahwin (AMIIN) 🤲🏻🤲🏻 Love you lots babe! Takecare 🤍🤍 - Athirah
HAPPY BIRTHDAY QILAHHH HEHEHEHE SORRY LAMBAT. May there be success at every turn of life and all your dreams come true! Semoga kehidupanmu di dunia ini sentiasa dilindungi, diberkati dan dirahmati oleh Allah. I pray for your happiness and health. Stay safe wherever you are. Muahh miss u bb😘 - Wina
Happy Birthday 'Aqilah. Saya doakan segala yang terbaik buat awak, di dunia dan akhirat. Ingatlah yang segala perkataan dan perbuatan kita di dunia ini adalah semata2 utk mendapatkan keredhaan Allah; belajar, bekerja, bermasyarakat, berkahwin, dll. Semoga kita sama2 dikurniakan syurgaNya kelak, amin. See you there insyaAllah - Dr HassilahDr Hassilah's prayer hits me so hard. Therefore, I would like to write myself a letter.
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SURAT UNTUK 'AQILAH
Dear 'Aqilah,
Alhamdulillah, you have turn 23 this year! Terima kasih Allah kerana telah memanjangkan umur dan memurahkan rezeki Aqilah. Terima kasih mak dan abah sebab telah menanggung Aqilah sehingga cukup pakai, makan, minum dan tidur. Terima kasih adik beradik kerana menerima kekurangan dan kelebihan seorang adik dan kakak ini. Terima kasih kawan-kawan yang masih mengingati diri yang serba biasa ini.
Aqilah, please read a lot of books. Please reduce your time on social media. No one is looking for you on social media anyway. Kau tu je perasan kau famous. Nothing interesting there like it used to. Ni bukan zaman kau dah. You should've deactivate all your accounts hahaha jk keep spreading kind there okie.
Thursday, June 11, 2020
Throughout the Years; 2017, 2018 & 2019
It has been almost three months since the first day of Movement Control Order aka MCO. MCO started on 18th March 2020 due to corona virus (covid-19), pandemic and I must say it's a tragedic that happened to the world. While I have a lot of time to be waste, I thought I wanted to start blogging again (yeah after a few encounter, sebab tak ada idea hahah and people won't read my blog anyway).
Farahanim's birthday celebration |
Graduation ceremony |
Thursday, April 6, 2017
Rezeki Kucing.
Theo and Leo. We haven't decide which one is Theo and Leo aha. |
Last Sunday(2/4/17), Comot was about time to give birth but we didn't know she couldn't give birth on her own. She bring herself into the cage and stayed there for the whole day! Instead of bringing Comot to Vet, we brought Kontot as we noticed Kontot had flu, and difficulties in breathing while he slept. It took us 30 minutes to honeyvets and omg the traffic jammed was seriously hectic and kakak tak boleh tahan diri dari mencarut hahahaha. Malaysian drivers, please please please give signal either you're going right or left! Don't give last minute signal. So annoying. Okay, back to the story, and long story short, Kontot was like kena asma. He was restless-- dear cat lovers, restless and hyperactive are different.
Browny, 2 years old. |
Snowy, 2 years old. |
10 minutes before rushing to vet in upm |
On Tuesday(11/4/17), I was home alone. Monitoring Comot. She seems like getting worst and there was something like blood on her butt. So I decided to take her to the vet in upm. After the long waiting, vet cakap, she needs to go through xray and ultrasound. Oh pula dah. Okay then, I said. Go ahead. My phone battery was about 10% at that time hahahaha kesian gila aku. So I waited, again. From 10am something until 1pm, I was in the vet, with low phone battery. Unfortunately, I didn't bring any power bank or a freakin charger. So, I tebalkan muka minta kat orang for charger. Tak sampai 5 minit, Comot punya ultrasound and xray is done, and bateri pun tinggal 5% (jadilah tu), we went back to the consultation room. Tunggu for doktor pula. Aigooo.
Before xray and ultrasound. Phone battery status: 8% |
xray results. see the black-ish figure? thats the can-not-detect-in-ultrasound baby. |
“Disunatkan untuk bermurah hati kepadanya (kucing) Dan wajib atas pemiliknya memberi makan kepadanya jika ia tidak dapat mencari sendiri makanannya.”I spent my mid sem holidays with these stuffs and wonder what Allah wants to show us.
Kami adik-beradik sanggup keluarkan duit dari akaun simpanan, just for cats. Watif said this to me,
"Takpa lah. Duit boleh dicari. Mungkin kali ni rezeki kita untuk diberi pada dia. Ada hikmah semua ni. Harini kita tolong dia, insya Allah one day, dia tolong kita."Yes, one day dia tolong kita, tak di sini, mungkin di akhirat nanti, kan? Insya Allah.
Tidak ada satu pun yang dicipta Allah swt itu tanpa tujuan termasuklah haiwan. Mengikut Ahmad Syakir dalam Umdah al Tafsir ‘an al Hafiz, 1/772, Dar al Wafaa’ (2003), semua haiwan di hari Kiamat kelak akan menjadi debu. Di situlah penamatnya. Tetapi kita sebagai manusia akan ditimbang segala amalan untuk ditentukan kesudahan Neraka dan Syurganya. Jadi kehadiran kucing bukan sahaja sebagai binatang peliharaan yang mengisi kekosongan jiwa kita tetapi juga sebagai wadah untuk menuai ganjaran pahala daripada Allah swt. (tazkirah.net)-------------------------------------------------------
Sekian for now.
Gonna do my work.
Assalamualaikum.